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The Questions Keeping You Stuck (And the Ones That Will Set You Free)

Let’s get real—have you ever asked yourself…..


“Why does this keep happening to me?”

“What’s wrong with me?”

“Why can’t I just get it right?”



These questions might seem innocent… even reflective. But here’s the truth:

 

The questions we ask ourselves shape the answers we find—and the life we live.

 

And when those questions are rooted in fear, shame, or self-blame…

They keep us looping in the same old stories.


Why These Questions Are So Powerful (and So Dangerous)


Your brain is a meaning-making machine.

It hears a question—and it goes looking for evidence to answer it.

 

So if you’re constantly asking…

Release the power of your internal negative questions and create a life you love
  • “Why can’t I get it right?”

  • “What’s wrong with me?”

  • “Why do people always leave?”

 

Your subconscious will start crafting answers like:

  • “Because you’re not good enough.”

  • “Because you always mess it up.”

  • “Because love doesn’t last for you.”

 

Oof! 😣

No wonder you feel stuck.


Did you know these aren’t just questions—they’re energetic commands!


It’s Not Your Fault (But It Is Your Pattern)

 

Most of us learned these disempowering questions in moments of trauma or deep stress.

 

When life felt out of control, we grasped for meaning.

We made ourselves the problem.

It gave us a false sense of control—because if it was our fault, maybe we could fix it.

 

But here’s the truth:

You were never broken and you don't need fixing!

You just formed these questions when you were in pain. You were just trying to figure out events that had happened. And now, it’s time to rewrite them.


Just as I rewrote mine .....


Since a little child, I had been asking myself "Why can't I be loved?". It didn't matter the experience (bullying, abuse, friendships, relationships, even money and the workplace) the result was the same - me being left asking the same damn question! However once I did the personal work and addressed this question specifically, this all changed! I stopped being a 'victim' trapped in my own story. And the truth is, is that, that love was always there but I was the one resisting it and who couldn't receive it. Today, I am spoilt with love through my relationships, friendships and yes, even money loves to show me the love!


I just wish I had had this knowledge 20 years ago when I started my tapping journey - as the journey would have been sooooo much easier!

(and probably a lot less tapping would have been required!)


That's why in the first webinar of the From Resistance to Receiving Series - Rewriting Your Inner Questions: Transforming negative cycles into empowering possibilities, we use Tapping and a powerful question reframe technique I’ve developed to help you:

 

✨ Identify the questions keeping you in loops

✨ Release the emotional charge behind them

✨ Choose new, expansive questions that open you up to healing, alignment, and magic

 

Imagine asking:

💕 “What would it take for this to work out better than I imagined?”

💕 “Why is it safe to believe in myself now?”

💕 "Why is it so amazing to feel loved and valued all the time?"

💕 “What if this is the moment everything shifts?”

 

These aren’t wishful thinking.

They are energetic questions to new possibilities.

 

This Is How You Change those 'never-ending' patterns!


When you start asking the right questions—everything shifts.

 

You’ll stop digging for what’s wrong and start discovering what’s right.

You’ll stop looping old pain and start activating new power.

 

You’ll stop keeping yourself stuck and finally feel free to grow.


You will become CONFIDENTLY YOU!

 

Are you ready to change the questions that have kept you stuck and create a life you love?


Join us for From Resistace to Receiving: The Inner Work that Changes Everything


From Resistance to Receiving: 10 webinars empowering you to become confidently you.



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